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Friday 30 April 2010 ;
16:33
http://www.dad-isms.com/post/519511550/i-have-told-you-my-reasons-for-not-moving-in-with

I have told you my reasons for not moving in with someone before marriage and I know I probably sound old-fashioned and unrealistic. I am telling you these things because I love you and don’t want to see you get hurt. I know what you are thinking…its o.k…I would have thought the same thing at your age. Let me tell you the gut level truth about males (that has nothing to do with Dad or God, this is about you):

If he isn’t talking about marrying you in the first three months, he really doesn’t want to. That’s not to say he won’t marry you later, out of obligation or because he can’t find anything better, (he still may) but I will tell you it’s not because his life would be incomplete without you, his soul mate, in it.

When a guy lives with you without talk of the future (early), in his mind, the arrangement is one of convenience, shared finances, and commitment-less sex more than it is about making a trial run at marriage. He can tell you he loves you and he may ‘feel’ it on some level, but when you are with your soul mate, believe me, you will feel like the priority you should be.

“But Dad..”. “No, don’t but Dad me”.

Ask him a simple question: “When do you see us getting married and having children?”

The talk of marriage and children should excite your future husband, not make him clam up and get angry . If he were with his ‘dream girl’ do you think he would dawdle around waiting for ‘everything to be just right’ or would he take the bull by the horns?

There are no more, ”but Dad’s to say”…this is the truth sweetheart. Because 85% of people getting married (and later divorced or in roommate marriages) know this in their heart and go against it doesn’t make it right.

Hesitation means you aren’t the one. Getting visibly upset about the topic of marriage means you aren’t the one.

If he truly loved you, being with you everyday in a marriage would be greatest thing to happen in his life. Why would anyone want to delay any moment of time when they know they have found ‘the one’?

The painful truth is your answer and the sooner you realize that the faster you can move on to someone who’s heart melts when you walk in the room (and believe me, you will know it) instead of a shared sexual and financial agreement that really is a month to month lease on a car they will probably never buy, but want to drive until a newer model comes out.

Don’t settle for less than the best and lower your standards when it comes to marriage.

I love you


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Monday 26 April 2010 ;
15:57


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Monday 19 April 2010 ;
10:58


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10:51

"I'm your jetty. You can dock here." -Knight J


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Friday 16 April 2010 ;
17:27

也许是因为長得很像你的原故,我对她特別好,教她时特別有耐心。
朋友,我好想你。
你过得好吗?


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Tuesday 13 April 2010 ;
12:16
Lately I've been contemplating leaving my job & the finance industry for good and doing something I really like. This would probably mean I have to give up a comfy lifestyle, good food and expensive bags. Which is almost everything I use to motivate myself in work. Much as I love finance, working in the finance sector is a totally different story. By and by I realise that I'm not living life the way I want to and the way I feel I should. If I should die tomorrow, I would not want to be sitting here doing what I am doing for money. That I believe, is an indicator that I'm not living life the right way. I need to leave and I need to leave soon. But even if not for a comfy lifestyle, good food and expensive bags, I would want to chalk up CPF to pay for future HDB.. See? Life sucks..

I have a few options. Out of which, only one can give me about the same amount of moolah on a STABLE, monthly basis WITH CPF. And even if I'm willing to take on less pay to do something that I like, it does not mean I will be successful. And by that time if I were to find a normal office job, I would be lagging behind in experience by SO much..

Tough choice.. =(


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