it hAppened aGain.. tHis tIme tO someone cLose tO me.. 30 yrs of mArriage.. pErphaPs it haS beEn gOing dOwnhiLL sincE tHe kNot wAs tIed.. bUt tO haVE a mAn consTantly mAke irresPonsible rEmarks is sO off puTTing...

i'vE meT tHese kInd of mEn b4.. wEnt out w oNe of hIs kInd tOo.. tHe kinD wHo sEEms sO pErfeCt iN pUblic.. tHe kind wHo pUts on a sHow in puBlic.. a sHow of hOw cAring he is tO his gIrl, hOw gentLEmanly he CAN BE.. bUt tHink.. all tHeSe preTEnce is only a faLse fRont.. he rEAlly loVEs u? nO.. he lOves hIs imaGE mORe.. it wAs gOod that i oNce daTed sUch sCums.. sO i knOw tHere's sUch a sPecies aNd haVe firSt hand underSTanding of hOw tHey aCt.. aNd in coMparison tO tHose wHo are nIce tO me sO otHers cAn SEE tHAt he's nICe, i apprecIate tHose wHO are nIce tO me in a lOw kEy waY.. really i dO.. tHis reminds me oF an oLd sOng that gOes "我爱你，不是爱给别人看" sIghz..

anw.. its haRd tO imagIne sUch a scRawny guy haS eNough guts sQueezed in hIs puNy fRame tO kEep a mIstreSS in BATAM! fOr YEARS somemOre.. (maYbe hIs laCk of cOnscience allowEd mOre sPace fOr hIs gUts tO sTay in hIs pin sIzed bOdy.. paRdon my nOnsence.. i jUst can't sTand tHe injustice he's dOing tO hIs faMily)

pple cHAnge.. it tAkes 2 haNDs tO claP bUT it dOesn aLways tAke 2 tO maKe a rElationship fall aPart.. it dOesn.. sOmetimes, it tAkes onE.. just oNe wil dO..

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如果你现在问我，什么是幸福，我会说，“幸福是在茫茫人海中，找到他。。幸福是和他在海边看星星。。幸福是能和他分享一本好书，一杯好咖啡。。幸福是牵着他的手，不管去哪里，都跟他走。。幸福是一起看画展。。幸福是一起拍很多很多很美的风景照。。幸福是懂得珍惜对方。。我不需要找到他才幸福。。只是，找到他，就有人和我分享幸福。。幸福，也许往往很短暂。。 但人生何尝不是一样的短暂？幸福是自由。。幸福是适当的约束。。幸福要如何琢磨？”