i fInally fully undERstOod tHe USEs (yeS i sAid USES) oF a bOy/giRlfrIend.

a fRen of minE is gEtting maRRied eARly neXt yr. we hAve nO otHer commOn fRiend. sHe aSked me tO bring mY bf aLong. i lOoked aT her bLankly.

"wHicH oNe?"
"a sErious oNe.. u kNow, oNe thAT u tHink u cAN iNtro tO pple aS ur oFFicial bf?"
"u kNow wHat? i tHink i mIght be sIck on tHat dAy.. haha.."
"-_- iDiot.."

a fRen oF YL is gEtting marRied neXt wEEk. (its a sHe) hE wAS aLso aSKed tO bRing a paRtner aLong. in fact, the exacT reQuest by hIs cLose fRiend was..

"bRing someoNe u cAn reALLy clicK w.. sOmeoNe wHo mAKes u sMile wHEn u tHink of her.. sOmeonE u aRE cLose tO.. i wAn tO meEt her.."

hE rEAlly dIdn kNow wHo tO brIng.. aNd tHis wAS wHere (aCCording tO hIm) i cAme in handy aS a pARt tIme gf.. wHich wOrks weLL fOR me.. hAving a pARt tIme bf meAns i'm sTill sIngle rIght? nO cOmmitmeNTs! aNd wHen we mEET occasIons like tHese we haVe somEone tO bRing bUt nOT exActly commitEd.. fRens wHo sHare cOuple sEats in tHeatres.. sOmeone tO hElp mE sCold gUys wHo tRy tO b fUnny.. sOmeonE wHom i cAN bUlly wHen i fEEl like it.. sOmeone tO tell seCrets tO..

fUnnily, if wE're tAlking abt a sErious r/sP i dOubt we'll cHoose eCh otR.. (at least i'm sUre i wldn allow myself tO end up w hIm!) bUt still..

dEspite bEnefits of haVing a sErious bf/gf like.. u know sOmeone will alWays b tHere fOr u (hOpefully!), a sHoulder tO leaN on, sOmeone u cAN dIscuss sTuff w.. someone tO sHAre ur liFE w.. i sTill believe tHe cons oUtwEigh tHe prOs.. (dUn gEt me sTarted oN tHE cOns..) pT tIme bf is a gOod aRRangEment..

liFE is funny i gUess.. wIth 1/2 bROthers aNd sIsters, sTep paRentS, 25% relaTed.. i gUess pARt time bf/gf isN tHat sTrange aFterall..

“安全感不是等男人给你的。。安全感是自己给自己的。。” - supErgIrL