Monday, 16 July 2007 ;
22:43
People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life......
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所以我常说，任何决定都没有错于对。。在情场上作的决定更没有错与对。。 人来人往，留得住人，留不住心也没用。。正的爱一个人，就让他做会让他快乐的事。。
所以。。 所以，如果我的离开，会换来你的快乐，我会马上消失。。消失得干干净净。。成全你们，是我给你最后的眷顾，留给自己的尊严。。你说，从来不明白我的歪理。。无所谓。。你以前不明白，以后也不需要明白。。你只要快乐，就不枉费我故意让你讨厌我，做我平时不对你做的事。。让你讨厌我过后才离开，你有好过一点对吗？为什么到了最后还为你着想？真笨。。还是老话一句，“承诺永远的人，往往没有时间观念”。。都这么久了。。突然又想起你。。因为你和季节一样，只是个过客。。
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oR sO sHe sAys..-
Kaiyan